It was madness i thought, fear had wrapped itself like silk around my neck, coiling such beautiful limbs, whispering its idol song. How do we do it to ourselves, allow the sweet honeyed dew of fear to catastrophize our lives no matter how sweet our success would be. It is easy to allow others to plant their doubts in your mind, to contaminate you with their issues, and to strangulate you with what their insecurities amount them too in their minds. Yet this is your journey, this is your field, you must be more than a ball without a strategy, without a team, without a net, you must be a game that has been well thought out, organised, strategised and set to score. With a winning mentality, we begin to win at life. With a loosing mentality we might as well be benched.